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Частицу to в английском языке мы используем перед начальной (неопределенной) формой глагола.

reason:

nowadays, a vast majority of teenagers don't trust their parents. they don’t share their thoughts with their parents, and keep all of their problems and thoughts to themselves. teenagers have nobody to talk to about their problems, and they often make the wrong decisions.

my solution how to bridge this gap:

i guess parents should spend more time with their children, ask them how their day was, and then, maybe, teenagers will trust their parents a bit more and get closer to them.

reason:

in our time, teenagers do not read as many books as did their parents. as a result, their vocabulary is rather limited. good books help us develop the ability to express ourselves in speech and writing.

my solution how to bridge this gap:

to my mind, kids should read more books, because books are not only interesting, but also educational and motivating.